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A fun-filled date with singles
 
Drama was used as a platform to share useful tips on dating.
 
On 21 May 2004, a group of officers from the Singapore Prison Service, Singapore Police Force, Immigration and Checkpoints Authority and the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) congregated at the SCDF Headquarters for a fun-packed afternoon. They were participating in a Single’s
Development Event.


The Ministry of Community Development and Sports and Fei Yue Community Services engaged professional actors to put up a brilliant show on boy-girl relationships.

The storyline: Two guys, one overly confident and the other extremely shy, were trying to date a gorgeous girl they met on the streets. The threesome managed to arrange for a date in spite of many hiccups. During the date, the girl got to know the guys better and realised they were not as “repulsive” as she had previously thought them to be. The drama concluded with the girl stating that she would prefer if the best qualities of the two guys could be combined into one person. The guys were left baffled about their perceived shortcomings.

At the end of the drama, the speaker for the event began her talk and facilitation. She used the contents of the drama as a platform to educate the audience about dating. The speaker covered many aspects such as how to make a connection, the do’s and don’ts of social etiquette, great ideas for dating success, and the difference between the genders. The talk was highly entertaining as the speaker was very expressive and injected lots of humour and drama into her session.

The objective of this programme was to reach out to singles and equip them with basic relationship skills to help them connect with the opposite sex. The programme also aimed to equip singles with the basics of finding a life partner and pointers on how to build, nurture and sustain such a relationship.

The participants said they enjoyed the session thoroughly as the drama and talk reflected reality in a humorous way. They found the session educational as they picked up many useful tips which they could apply in their lives. They gave their thumbs up for the session and said it was an unconventional but good way to reach out to singles.
 
 
By MHA
 
DO YOU SUFFER
FROM SMALL TALK DEFICIENCY?

Here’s one of the many dating tips you can find at www.lovebyte.org.sg, the website of the Social Development Unit:

“A friend of mine was diagnosed as suffering
from STD — small talk deficiency. Yeah, small talk is inane, banal, superficial. Maybe. And flirting is demeaning, silly, and immoral. Maybe. But people who think this
way probably aren’t having much fun.

“Flirting with a stranger, or just making small talk in the lift may get your heart beating a little faster. Engaging in light-hearted banter exercises your social skills. It’s all about human contact and human interaction.

“Small talk doesn’t mean small minds. In fact, it takes skill, a keen mind, and lots of practice to participate in the fine art of making conversation. Master it, and you’ll never be at a loss for words.”
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